Evil Genius

Buzkashi wrote:Yea i didnt even feel like reading it.

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Man, this is like the real life version of one of my favorite songs on Weezer's new album, "Make Believe" It also caps up most of my love life, so I feel for you dude, most every girl I've ever wanted to get into a relationship in, I realize when they are already with someone else, or when they have no deisre to date.

Perfect Situation
What's the deal with my brain?
Why am I so obivously insane?
In a perfect situation,
I let love down the drain.
There's the pitch, slow and straight,
All I have to do is swing and I'm a hero.
But I'm a zero...

Hungry nights once again.
Now it's getting unbelievable.
'Cause I could not have it better,
But I just can't get no play
From the girls all around,
As they search the night
For someone to hold onto,
and just pass through.

Tell me there's a logic out there
Leading me to better prepare,
For the day that something
Really special might come.
Tell me there's some hope for me,
I don't want to be lonely
For the rest of my days on the Earth...

Femto: Hmmm, you've got some good points there. I guess to me it just seems like if there isn't some part of you that wants to be with someone for a long time, than it might not be any small wonder why relationships don't work out, and yeah, by relationships I was pretty much just referring to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.

About the a lot less or more intelligent, sounds conceited maybe, but think back to the last time you were around a group of people you just couldn't talk to because you seemed to be on a different intelligence level. Don't get me wrong, I like and love pretty much every single person I meet, to a point, but as far as hanging out with people goes, if they just speak a different language, it gets frustrating to have to explain yourself all the time to someone who's just looking dumbfouded at you. Communication being so important to a relationship as it is, if you can't talk about things on a daily basis, the relationship is probably going to go south sooner or later. You gotta be friends first.

You know, before I got with my wife, I had gotten out've a really bad relationship and being with someone longterm was the last thing on my mind. Kind've funny actually. I knew there was a part of me who wanted to have someone, but I was really starting to doubt myself in that area. I remember going to this work Christmas party and seeing all the couples together and getting really depressed. Went out to the parking lot and layed down on the cement, looking up at the night sky and hoping that someday I'd find someone. Things have a way of working out I think.

Oh, dispite what some people may say, it's actually quite healthy to argue from time to time. Woe be to the people who try so hard to keep all their frustrations under wraps cause sooner or later its gonna come out, probably all at once too. About the biggest argument I've been in with my spouse was cause I ate her last chocolate chip cookie. It was the principal of the thing see.

I like what you said about if it comes along fine, but if not, that's cool too. A lot of people really think that when they find someone, then they'll do this and they'll be like so and such. You sooooooo have to be just fine as you are, a complete person, and not just needing someone to fill an empty slot in your life cause then you end up not seeing them as they are and that isn't fair for either person.

But nah, I totally respect your opinions on it. Relationships are one area where you have to know what you want, not what someone else wants for you. Besides, the world would be really boring if everyone agreed with me.

Well if you don't have a girlfriend you don't have to buy a chick anything. Unless she brought you stuff instead then what the hell is your problem!?

She took me back...i feel really bad,so i have decided not to leave her no matter what.

Nazgûl wrote:She took me back...i feel really bad,so i have decided not to leave her no matter what.

If you like/love her do it, if not don't stay with her forever just because of the bad feeling.
I would rather lose a loved one than staying with her/him forever with the knowledge that those are fake feelings.

Yeah, don't force yourself to be with her just because you think you messed up.

Amion wrote:. it gets frustrating to have to explain yourself all the time to someone who's just looking dumbfouded at you. Communication being so important to a relationship as it is, if you can't talk about things on a daily basis, the relationship is probably going to go south sooner or later. You gotta be friends first.

enter Jessica Simpson..

i think it may have been a mistake to take her back, cause i have a feeling that if the other girl flung herself at you after she breaks up with her bf you might just think twice about never breaking up with your old girl.

MrFelony wrote:

Amion wrote:. it gets frustrating to have to explain yourself all the time to someone who's just looking dumbfouded at you. Communication being so important to a relationship as it is, if you can't talk about things on a daily basis, the relationship is probably going to go south sooner or later. You gotta be friends first.

enter Jessica Simpson..

i think it may have been a mistake to take her back, cause i have a feeling that if the other girl flung herself at you after she breaks up with her bf you might just think twice about never breaking up with your old girl.

Yes i thought about that too and only thing i can came up with is to avoid her at all cost!! If i dont do that i'll do something stupid again.

Necromancer wrote:

Nazgûl wrote:She took me back...i feel really bad,so i have decided not to leave her no matter what.

If you like/love her do it, if not don't stay with her forever just because of the bad feeling.
I would rather lose a loved one than staying with her/him forever with the knowledge that those are fake feelings.

I agree, "feeling bad" is probably one of the worst (after pity) reasons to have a relationship with somebody.
You're feeling bad, she notices it, and everyone ends up unhappy.

there is only one way to fix this...




talk her into being friends with benefits... just fuck and belh no worries about relantionship or w/e.

halfnhalf wrote:there is only one way to fix this...




talk her into being friends with benefits... just fuck and belh no worries about relantionship or w/e.

Quoted for emphasis.

Nazgûl wrote:She took me back...i feel really bad,so i have decided not to leave her no matter what.

Well, lucky, man. Wish you luck with her. Avoid the hot chicks at all costs if you want to continue with your current relationship! Don't want to break the same girl's heart twice. There would be purely evil.

Congradulations, you have found yourself one forgiving girl. Be uber-nice to her.

Its also pure evil to misslead her once again and make her think you like and care about her.Its not fair to her(or even you) that you only go back to her just because you feel sorry nor her,and for only that.Its not good to break up with her again and leave her wen you get tempted at the slightest,and its good that you decided to treat her better.But its also not very nice to even have a relationship with her in the first place(second?),if they feelings between you two aren't mutual.Nothing good can come out of it.She's bound to notice.

I dont think he ever said that he didnt like her.

well, its kinda obvious

Not to put ideas into your head but she might have took you back so she could get back at you by doing the same thing you did to her... thats just how some women are... nothing is worse that a woman scorned... I couldnt imagine a woman scorned twice.

Sandman

Not to put ideas into your head but she might have took you back so she could get back at you by doing the same thing you did to her... thats just how some women are

Naw, I don't think he has to worry about that. Thats just too much trouble to go to for revenge. If I were her and I were still pissed, I just wouldn't have taken him back. That can be revenge enough.

Somegirls are very forgiving because they love there man. One of my friends has sex with another girl and his girlfriend found out. But he claimed that he was drunk and didnt know what he was doing. She forgave him....

Buzkashi wrote:Somegirls are very forgiving because they love there man. One of my friends has sex with another girl and his girlfriend found out. But he claimed that he was drunk and didnt know what he was doing. She forgave him....

WOW!!! I love that excuse... "I was drunk" you get away with anything when you say that.

Haha really a 13 year olds excuse =)

it used to be a valid excuse in law...im glad people realized "i was drunk" wasnt that great of an excuse for why you killed 3 people while you were driving.

I'd just like to say, from a female point of view, you suck.
Same with all the people trying to help you suck even more by giving bad advice. Jeebus.
If you're not in it for the long run... well, you'll catch a lot of VDs. :/